Let's say you want to invest the time and money to make someone a handmade gift, but you know their lifestyle is going to render your efforts destroyed in short order, would you make them the object anyway?
It costs me hundred of dollars to make a queen size quilt, not to mention weeks and weeks of my time. I cringe when people let their cats and dogs on these quilts! While I want my loved one to have the gift of my time/money, I don't know that I want to spend that time/money to make a pet bed and a quilt that will live a severely shortened life as a result.
So would you make a costly and very time consuming gift for someone who was going to not look after it quite the way you want? Do you not make it, or make it and let your work be destroyed, if that's what the receiver chooses to do with it?
It costs me hundred of dollars to make a queen size quilt, not to mention weeks and weeks of my time. I cringe when people let their cats and dogs on these quilts! While I want my loved one to have the gift of my time/money, I don't know that I want to spend that time/money to make a pet bed and a quilt that will live a severely shortened life as a result.
So would you make a costly and very time consuming gift for someone who was going to not look after it quite the way you want? Do you not make it, or make it and let your work be destroyed, if that's what the receiver chooses to do with it?