I should really quit writing this stuff. If Horse Daughter ever sees it I will be disowned!
Boyfriend is not a bad sort. Not mean spirited. Just a little..well, he hasn't had 35 years to grow into himself yet.
Late last evening I did tactfully (Magdelan, for me tactful is a stretch!) inquire why boy was standing while she was shovelling. She said she does not mind shovelling if he pushes the wheelbarrow and dumps (it's a muddy, uphill slope with a full load to the manure pile). She also says it bothers her when people have bad poo scooping technique and frankly, he has no clue. It is faster to do it alone than have him scattering and chasing rolling turds. So she is happy that he is on wheelbarrow duty and therefore does not feel slighted that he is not shovelling.
Heda..I think we need to get together for wine and to solve the world's problems. Being the mother of an extremely challenging child who did NOT turn out the way I planned, I no longer blame the mom. No doubt there are mom's who roll their eyes as they see their kids acting in ways they were told not to act! Sure, there are some moms who are crap at it, but for the most part most moms try very hard to do right by their kids. I don't think this guy was raised by wolves, he is very polite with please and thank you and clears his plate and all that. He's just a door slammer and cigar smoker. I think I can beat that out of him. If HD doesn't, that is. (young people. ugh!)
Oh, what does she see in him? I think the battered cowboy boots and enormous, silver belt buckle have dazzled her. Plus, he cuddles and scratches her horses, rides them too.