This post comes after many journeys I have taken in support of my kids. My story is undoubtedly different than yours, but my message is this: always persevere- you know what you child needs more than anyone else. If you think they are being lost in the school system, speak up. If you get shut down try again. Always be friendly but firm. And document everything. (Colour coding it all in a nice neat file doesn't hurt either ) Do what needs to be done for your child. This time will impact their future. Talk to the teachers, the principal, the resource teachers and counsellors - call team meetings and be an active part in that team. Always hold them accountable and always show your appreciation for what they do. The are the front lines of your kids' education.
If you are wondering why I am a writing this, it's because today I scored a major victory for my son. As a child with Aspergers, he has an almost genius capability in math. His vocabulary is of an adult. But without direction and support, it will never be utilized. He is moving to the K-12 school next year. Our school only goes to grade 6. Because of funding cuts, I was told there would be no support from an Educational Assistant for him. Not cool. For the past three years that he has been at his present school he has learned to shine. He has surpassed everyone's expectations, even mine. To let this child get lost in the system is not an option. I had a very good meeting with the new principal today. Armed with my files ordered, and yes colour coded and a smile, I achieved my goal. There will be an EA meeting him off of the bus the first day he starts. He will be supported and his learning style will be acknowledged. He will have the time he needs to regroup when necessary (a life skill I think we all could learn) and I anticipate will shine in the new school as well!
So don't ever go e up hope or the fight if you feel your child needs more. In the midst of budget cuts and overworked staff on the front lines, you must speak up. Your child will thank you for it. I promise.
If you are wondering why I am a writing this, it's because today I scored a major victory for my son. As a child with Aspergers, he has an almost genius capability in math. His vocabulary is of an adult. But without direction and support, it will never be utilized. He is moving to the K-12 school next year. Our school only goes to grade 6. Because of funding cuts, I was told there would be no support from an Educational Assistant for him. Not cool. For the past three years that he has been at his present school he has learned to shine. He has surpassed everyone's expectations, even mine. To let this child get lost in the system is not an option. I had a very good meeting with the new principal today. Armed with my files ordered, and yes colour coded and a smile, I achieved my goal. There will be an EA meeting him off of the bus the first day he starts. He will be supported and his learning style will be acknowledged. He will have the time he needs to regroup when necessary (a life skill I think we all could learn) and I anticipate will shine in the new school as well!
So don't ever go e up hope or the fight if you feel your child needs more. In the midst of budget cuts and overworked staff on the front lines, you must speak up. Your child will thank you for it. I promise.