As a Catholic I try to follow the rules of the church that I feel are pertinent and important to my life. My dad, of course, is horrified. To him being a Catholic is all or nothing. You don't pick and choose the rules.
Since I am divorced and remarried, I find being Catholic a challenging task at times. So much of what I do flies in the face of Catholic expectations.
That said, one observance I follow is no meat on Good Friday. Not eating meat is a reminder and a show of respect because Christ sacrificed his Flesh and by abstaining from flesh we are keeping His sacrifice in mind.
Another reason is that throughout history meat was expensive and fish and shellfish were cheap or free. You would give up the rich expensive food in lieu of the cheap, frugal stuff. Today that is not the case and many Catholics enjoy a lovely dinner of lobster tonight, still technically observing Good Friday.
Since I am divorced and remarried, I find being Catholic a challenging task at times. So much of what I do flies in the face of Catholic expectations.
That said, one observance I follow is no meat on Good Friday. Not eating meat is a reminder and a show of respect because Christ sacrificed his Flesh and by abstaining from flesh we are keeping His sacrifice in mind.
Another reason is that throughout history meat was expensive and fish and shellfish were cheap or free. You would give up the rich expensive food in lieu of the cheap, frugal stuff. Today that is not the case and many Catholics enjoy a lovely dinner of lobster tonight, still technically observing Good Friday.