messaging questions

Does anybody else have any problems sending PMs
I have had a few that haven't worked but I have assumed I did something wrong as I am not very good on computers.
When I type a message and send it it goes to my outbox but not always to my sent file. On one occasion my PM came back to me in my message box like I had sent it to myself.
It my very well just be me hitting the wrong button but I thought I would throw it out there just in case it is not just me. I find I end up sending it twice if I am not sure it was sent, or just posting it, but if it is a problem for others maybe it should be looked at.

When you send a message it goes into your outbox, when the recipient reads it then it shows up in your sent box.
If you hit "preview" when you do a PM it will come up like you sent it to yourself but has not been actually sent yet.
Hope that helps.

Thanks Jayme:
I am such a dinosaur when it comes to computer stuff.
(I am one of those people who still has some 8 tracks somewhere.)

No problems. It took me a while to figure it out as well.

I am on another forum that has PMs work same way. I like this system because I know when the PM has been read cause it goes into the sent box. (I guess it means you know for sure if you are being ignored or not )