If you do decide to pursue a cow or goat, it is possible to milk once a day. You can either leave the little one on during the day and separate them at night when it is old enough, or you can actually milk once a day without the calf in the picture. We found information on this in a very indispensable book for having milk cows. It is by Dirk van Loon, and is called The Family Cow. Even before you get a cow, GET THIS BOOK and read it. It will help you know what to look for and what to avoid. You will also gain valuable information that you can use later. It should help boost your confidence.
You can also find information on this for milking goats on the Fiasco Farms website. We milk our jersey early in the morning and we have the rest of the day that is ours.
We do still feed some barley in the evening to keep the cream content up. Cows are not really a lot of hassle as some may tell you. You need a fence, an electric fencer, pasture, hay for winter feeding, a lean to for winter wind protection, straw for bedding and a place to milk, some barley (best choice for cream production) a strainer, good straining cloths, a bucket of hot water and dish soap for cleaning the udder and a vinegar/water mix for disinfecting the udder and keeping the flies off the cow. Nothing has to be fancy. You don't even need a separator. Just skim the cream off the top. We made our milking area with stuff we had laying around. We have a dirt floor that is sloped out toward the door. We prefer the dirt to concrete for comfort for the cow and cleanliness reasons as odd as that sounds. We have never had to call a vet. Overall, the health of our animal(s) are great! We have saved a lot of money over the years milking our own cow, so even if we can't sell it, it makes us money in that way. Oh, and I have lost weight by drinking raw milk...6 lb. in 7 days. I changed nothing else. It has never returned.
We will never by choice be without a good milk cow again. If you look around, and depending on your location, you may be able to find one for a good price. Just know what you are looking for and be willing to pay for one with no issues. It is worth it. Don't go cheap unless it is a great cow with no former or current problems. Know its heritage. That can pay off for you too. We did not want a cross, as we wanted to know what we were getting. We didn't want any holstein blood. We wanted a high milk producer with a high ratio of cream, & so we chose a jersey. I would love to try a guernsey and/or a milking shorthorn but they are VERY pricey in comparison here and the shorthorn is very rare. We have an excellent source for registered jerseys nearby. We paid only $500 each time we got one from the dairyman and this last time got the top producer (with NO health issues or problems whatsoever) in the herd at 3 years old.
We have never regretted it. I am so amazed at what they charge on the west coast for one that isn't even close to the top quality one that we got.
Can you tell that I love jerseys and their "cousins"?
If you ever need cheese recipes, you can get goat milk cheese recipes on that site, or you can pm/email me for cow's milk recipes. I have many and many links to good cheese making advice. I can also direct you to some good sources for supplies that you might need. There is nothing like real cheese.
You are correct, in Alberta you cannot legally sell or even give away raw milk. The same goes for the province I am in, Manitoba. It is a sad thing really. I wish it wasn't so.
Anyway, I hope that you can get a taste of raw milk. We have no problem "sharing" in house if someone comes for a visit. We have no bought milk that comes through our doors, and I am thinking that that might be a good way for you to get a taste legally. If you are a guest, what can "they" say?