Inspired by Sweeteneds's topic...
I admire frugal people but find cheap people offensive. And there is a BIG difference !
In my experience, cheap people are those who will niggle and whine and kick the dirt when it's time to pay the bill. They want you to knock off 10 or 20%. BUt they are the first to never give anyone a break on anything. Your services to them are over priced, but they want full payment for everything they do for you! If they are buying an item from you, it's a common item of not much vaue. If they are selling that same item it is so valuable it should be in a museum and the price (high) is the price. These people are like many other people who delude themselves about how they really are, and what they tag as 'frugal' is in actual fact 'cheap' and walks the fine line of being greedy.
Another issue that ties into our love of frugality is thinking we SHOULD get everything as cheaply as we can. White Western Entitlement. This is the first step in a long cycle that sees manufacturers producing goods in 3rd world countries, using labour practices that we abhor. Yet our love of our dollar makes us exploiters of someone else. The CHEAPEST food we can get is NOT the food that keeps Canadian small farmers in business. CHEAP food is what is killing the small farmer. CHEAP PEOPLE WHO THINK THEY'RE FRUGAL KILL LOCAL FOOD INDUSTRY. So while we do the happy dance over frugality...it is costing someone else something somewhere and yes it IS our responsibility to think about that.
Thinking you should have it all, that you should have an item and still have your money too is to me a very offensive way to think. Tagging it as 'frugal' puts a squirt of perfume on a pile of crap. I think it's decent to accept that to GET something we will have to give up a FAIR PRICE for that something and decide if we want to have IT or want to keep our money. That is adult, mature, fair and better for the world. BUt to think we can have everything we want while NOT tossing our money into the swirl of economy makes us cry babies and sore losers and we ought to be thumped on the head and sent to the corner to reconsider our greedy nature.
Hunting, canning, home repair, buying second hand does NOT fall under the category of cheap, but of hard work and deliberate choice making and that is very respectable, in my opinion. But always looking for a way to scarpe a buck off every transaction is not frugal. It's cheap. To me a frugal person lives WITHOUT many things and has learned to say no to their galloping desire for More. Cheap people beleive they should have everything they want and don't want to pay full price for any of it. There is a WORLD of difference between the two!
I admire frugal people but find cheap people offensive. And there is a BIG difference !
In my experience, cheap people are those who will niggle and whine and kick the dirt when it's time to pay the bill. They want you to knock off 10 or 20%. BUt they are the first to never give anyone a break on anything. Your services to them are over priced, but they want full payment for everything they do for you! If they are buying an item from you, it's a common item of not much vaue. If they are selling that same item it is so valuable it should be in a museum and the price (high) is the price. These people are like many other people who delude themselves about how they really are, and what they tag as 'frugal' is in actual fact 'cheap' and walks the fine line of being greedy.
Another issue that ties into our love of frugality is thinking we SHOULD get everything as cheaply as we can. White Western Entitlement. This is the first step in a long cycle that sees manufacturers producing goods in 3rd world countries, using labour practices that we abhor. Yet our love of our dollar makes us exploiters of someone else. The CHEAPEST food we can get is NOT the food that keeps Canadian small farmers in business. CHEAP food is what is killing the small farmer. CHEAP PEOPLE WHO THINK THEY'RE FRUGAL KILL LOCAL FOOD INDUSTRY. So while we do the happy dance over frugality...it is costing someone else something somewhere and yes it IS our responsibility to think about that.
Thinking you should have it all, that you should have an item and still have your money too is to me a very offensive way to think. Tagging it as 'frugal' puts a squirt of perfume on a pile of crap. I think it's decent to accept that to GET something we will have to give up a FAIR PRICE for that something and decide if we want to have IT or want to keep our money. That is adult, mature, fair and better for the world. BUt to think we can have everything we want while NOT tossing our money into the swirl of economy makes us cry babies and sore losers and we ought to be thumped on the head and sent to the corner to reconsider our greedy nature.
Hunting, canning, home repair, buying second hand does NOT fall under the category of cheap, but of hard work and deliberate choice making and that is very respectable, in my opinion. But always looking for a way to scarpe a buck off every transaction is not frugal. It's cheap. To me a frugal person lives WITHOUT many things and has learned to say no to their galloping desire for More. Cheap people beleive they should have everything they want and don't want to pay full price for any of it. There is a WORLD of difference between the two!