Sue, I find your use of the word 'mold' to be interesting when referring to the practice of shunning. Shunning and excommunication do not 'mold' a society. They intimidate and coerce like how the Mafia might 'mold' your knee cap with a baseball bat. While we distance ourselves from people and practices we find distatesful, when it is done on a group level, it is evil and wicked. The results, devastating. It is a powerful means of abusive control and removal of personal rights and freedoms, Lord, why am I not a lawyer? We can discuss this further on that other forum we both belong to "Fruedian slips or, What You Really Meant to Say.." This really needs its own thread because the discussion of ways to control people is totally appropriate to a chicken site.
Farmchiq, I know what you mean. SOmetimes there is little to add when you are in agreement with a thread/topic. But sometimes I speak up anyway because A) I like the sound of my own voice, we all know that and B) sometimes it seems like a person is standing alone and I would step out of a crowd to stand beside them if I felt so moved, so will sometimes voice support just so they don't feel hung out to dry. It can be lonely posting an unpopular opinion or touchy topic.